nhiNg_cutE’s BLOG

Life
is a journey, it is so misterious and full of different colors. We
encounter numbers of people along this journey. Some are just to pass
by, some made a mark in our life but some just happened to exists to
send aches that somehow helps us have a strong grip to stand and be
firm. But, whatever their purpose in coming into our lives they are
ment to be part of our journey. And we must not regret in meeting them,
for they represents certain color in our colorful life. Life is
certainly beautiful!!! Be glad for each day we live!

As
happens sometimes a moment settled and hovered and remained for much
more than a moment. And sound stopped and movement stopped for much,
much more than a moment. And then the moment was gone.
Do not look
back and grieve over the past, for it is gone; and do not be troubled
about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and
make it so beautiful that it will be worth remembering
The thing
people forget is how good it can feel when you finally set secrets
free. Whether good or bad, at least they’re out in the open. And once
your secrets are out in the open, you don’t have to hide behind them
anymore. The problem with secrets is even when you think you’re in
control, you’re not..

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open heart

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i
really have to take note of this.. humm. i found it in one of the
nursing forums.. and since assessment is one of the  primary skills you
have to have as  a nurse.. well i guess this site will help a lot.

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Isn’t it amazing the things God uses to teach us a lesson?
I learned to BE STILL from someone, no something:
a bottle of ketchup.

I banged on the top and the sides. It wasn’t plastic so I couldn’t squeeze it or rush it short of poking a knife into the bottle. I waited and waited for the slow drip of the red stuff on my fries.

My plate had a lot of fries for that ketchup to cover and to wait would’ve taken all day. I banged on the sides again and the top and shook it for all it was worth. I didn’t have all day.

Suddenly, it came to me, this is how I am when I ask God for something.

I have a lot to cover and very little time and even less patience.  God, on the other hand, has all the time in the world and does things in HIS own time and when HE is ready. I can shake, squeeze, and bang all I want, but the blessing won’t be poured on in my time but in HIS time.

  Love is
one of the most powerful forces in the universe. It is the fire that
burns inside, the essence of being. Love is the source of all our
comfort and contentment. It is a precious gift that defines our purpose
in life. If we keep in mind that we can indeed preserve its true
meaning, we can love to the fullest and be happy the rest of our lives.

Accept that other people express love differently.

How
do you express love? You say "I love you" three times a day, kiss and
embrace as often as you can, you never forget anniversaries, and you
always prepare his favorite dishes. How does he express his love? He
rarely says I love you", he seldom kisses you, he forgets your
birthday, and he doesn’t know how to cook. But he works overtime, walks
the dog, takes out the garbage, takes you to movies, and calls you
"baby". He probably loves you more than you can imagine, he just shows
it differently. If you can accept that then you will have a healthier
perspective of your relationship.

Derive happiness from giving love. When you love, do it
because you want to. There is an indescribable joy in loving. Just give
it. And cherish satisfaction in having given someone something of
yourself. It’s like giving a gift. Whether it s appreciated or not,
find joy in simply giving. Love without expecting anything in return.
This is where pain comes in… When you demand something in return for
the love you give. You are setting yourself up for disappointment
because love cannot always be reciprocal.

Love between two
people can never be of the same intensity at the same time and place.
No matter how much your partner loves you, he will never be able to
fill all your needs all the time. And you will be in the worst
situation if you believe you should love only when you are sure to
receive equal love in return. You will be waiting in misery forever.

Love now. The past is gone and the future is just a dream. All of
yesterday’s aches and pains, as well as the loves and laughter, are
mere memories. Let them go. Fantasies and worries are for a future that
may never come. Don’t dwell on them. Live now. Give love now. Do it now
and enjoy it now. That is the secret of genuine contentment. Throw away
those destructive habits. When you insist upon yourself that you always
have to be in control, that you always have to be right, that others
must always please you, you put yourself in a very tight spot.

Loving
relationships are flexible, dynamic, and evolving. Leave room for
change and interaction. Allow for new behavior and learning
experiences. When we welcome these into our lives, we open ourselves to
sharing more love and affection and less frustration and pain. Yes, you
will say that unconditional love is easier said than done. I agree.
Especially when we have always believed that love is give and take. But
try believing that love is simply giving. And you will be surprised
that a lot of it, even more, actually comes back to you.

::kudos
to the one who wrote this.. you inspire me to love and take the risk
intertwined with it. It wouls be difficult to get hurt at the end but
the fleeting moment of happiness far surmounts it. What the heck
,whatever comes tomorrow… i’ll choose to be happy today.

:: i’ll to choose to love him, whatever it takes.